I did a post a while ago about an experience that made me rethink my sexuality but now I seem to be having some more issues. I am unsure whether this is down to my decreasing mental health or just one of those things that every teenager and young adult go through before they finally settle down with who they are. I will be going over some things I’ve talked about before but I need to try to get this straight (excuse the pun) in my own head.
- I am not feminine I do not wear skirts or dresses.
- I like being more masculine I wear boxer shorts, loose jeans, trainers, jumpers, shirts, t-shirts, hair tied back.
- I do not see me having children in the future. I don’t like children and I don’t want children. I am not maternal.
- I have kissed both a guy and a girl.
- I have only been sexually attracted to the girl I’ve kissed.
- I have been sexually attracted to many guys.
- I look at other girls and see them as pretty and think of having a relationship with them.
- I am attracted to male:male relationships.
- I would want to be in male:male relationship.
- I don’t know if I would want to be in a female:female relationship.
- If I could be anyone, I would be a man in a gay relationship.
What does this make me? A straight woman pretending to be more masculine? A woman looking for a straight man who doesn’t mind masculinity in a woman? A masculine woman looking for a gay man?
I am just so confused. This is why I have always wanted to be an actor, so I don’t have to be me. I can be anyone I want to.